tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2703298219148864437.post2463666909922016079..comments2023-05-15T08:45:11.289-05:00Comments on Jack Scott's Discussions on Male Sexuality: A Helping HandJack Scotthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08273576581155029176noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2703298219148864437.post-23252698117228973752011-09-24T14:47:24.203-05:002011-09-24T14:47:24.203-05:00I applaud you for offering that helping hand. I w...I applaud you for offering that helping hand. I wish I had someone like you to talk with 2 years ago when I told my wife and separated from her. I still think it was the right decision for me, but I might have done it more graciously.<br /><br />And even though I live with my partner, I am still socially and emotionally a straight man. <br /><br />Thanks for being a resource to those of us finding ourselves somewhere in the middle between straight and gay.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12775219683154536934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2703298219148864437.post-72532026529521882062011-09-24T11:22:02.593-05:002011-09-24T11:22:02.593-05:00Posting "A Helping Hand" to my blog was ...Posting "A Helping Hand" to my blog was a difficult decision. I didn't want make "T" think I was putting him in an unwanted spotlight, yet at the same time, his comment about my blog had touched me and I wanted to help if possible.<br /><br />"A Helping Hand" has proven to be the right decision. It has caused a number of guys to contact me privately telling me about their situations.<br /><br />Having someone to talk to is a very big thing. Years ago in my pain and self-hate I would have given almost anything for someone just to talk to.<br /><br />The offer stands. If you need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to contact me via email.<br /><br />Jack ScottJack Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08273576581155029176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2703298219148864437.post-87416023556870167132011-09-23T05:17:18.771-05:002011-09-23T05:17:18.771-05:00I think we could all write books based on these ex...I think we could all write books based on these experiences. Perhaps this is the next best thing, but in a way it's much more convenient, discreet, and current. Write on--and thanks!bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04469145500792404484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2703298219148864437.post-12406561801446633452011-09-22T21:32:33.715-05:002011-09-22T21:32:33.715-05:00Back in the old days (I am almost 69), some of us ...Back in the old days (I am almost 69), some of us including myself thought we were straight as we were becoming men. After about 6 years of marriage, I realized that I was more sexually aroused by men than women, and started having anonymous trysts on the side. Two grown sons and 25 years later, I divorced, so that I could come out of the closet to those I chose, but not everyone such as colleagues at work. In my case, it went beyond bisexual because I was no longer interested in sex with females, and came to grips with being gay. Would I have chosen to be gay? No. I love my family, my sons and their families. But I am what I am, and that is gay! For more details, read about me in my blog in the post titled: "Who Your Blogger Is . . ."Uncutplushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456398466578990531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2703298219148864437.post-80551159122956754512011-09-22T16:19:35.934-05:002011-09-22T16:19:35.934-05:00I, too, feel exactly the same way. I would not ch...I, too, feel exactly the same way. I would not change being married or a husband and father. That being said there is something about the male form that physically attracts me. Sometimes it is a look on their face, sometimes a glimpse of his forearm, sometimes it is the way he walks into the room but always it results in a tingling in my brain. Thanks for letting us bi guys know we are not alone.KCGUYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11072355128677021862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2703298219148864437.post-15484437090450712682011-09-22T10:50:38.428-05:002011-09-22T10:50:38.428-05:00I feel that the paragraph describes me in this res...I feel that the paragraph describes me in this respect also, though I've never felt any guilt about these feelings. I have felt some guilt about actually meeting some guys, but I feel that the my goal is not to find guys to have sex with, but to be friends with.Amtop1036https://www.blogger.com/profile/11266132997294860412noreply@blogger.com